Do you ever wonder why couples are into the swinging lifestyle? In most cases, it is because they are so intimate and devoted to each other, that they are not possessive about their love. True swingers actually enjoy the fact that their life partner is able to enjoy the sexual satisfaction that another can bring them, and will often discuss it afterwards. It is almost as if their partner went out to dinner with some friends. For true swingers, they do not let romance sneak into their outside sexual activities. In fact, they know that allowing romance into an external sexual relationship would likely mean the end of their relationship with their current partner, and because of that they avoid romance like the plague. Swingers often think of their relationship with their spouse as their home base. Even though they enjoy having sexual encounters with other swingers, they will not let it interfere with their core romantic partner.
Swinging is a personal choice for many married couples who see sex with someone other than their partner as a physically stimulating pastime. Some people however get into swinging for the wrong reasons. Maybe their partner is into swinging and they want make them happy by getting into it themselves. Possibly their relationship is failing and the excitement has all but vanished; so they adopt swinging hoping to rekindle the fire and passion of their relationship. Getting into swinging for these reason's is not the route you want to take because it usually just leads to a breakup. It can only work if both partners are completely open minded about the situation and can handle their partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else without flying into a jealous rage.
To emphasize the point, swinging is a lifestyle for couples who have very loving and close relationships. Mutual understanding and a strong foundation are vital factors in being a swinger. It is fundamental that your partner understands and accepts your reasons for wanting to be a swinger. One of the main success factors for swinging is a relationship based on strong communication and being open with each other about your feelings. Those who have equal understanding will find out that swinging can be a very adventurous way of life and that it makes you feel alive. Swinging can appeal to your emotional and recreational needs, including fantasies and desires that you can explore either together or apart. Swinging is very much about sharing sexual adventures with each other which in turn will strengthen your sexual and emotional growth.
Just remember that it takes two to tango well.
Swinging has become and continues to be, increasingly popular for married and dating couples as well as all social classes. Swinging began in the early 50s in the rich suburbs of the United States. At that time swinging was not a common thing and back then meeting would either be through news paper ads or through other swingers.
Social views have changed radically through the years and this has accelerated even more during the 90's at a dizzying rate. At this time, besides local swinger clubs, you are now able to find Internet swinger sites to meet new friends. These sites offer you the chance to connect to and meet other couples like yourselves who are interested in getting together for a fun time. So if you happen to be a swinger or think you are emotionally ready to get into a swinging lifestyle, here is the site for you: